How to create real connection with your subject — even when time is short
Q: What does “real connection” mean to you when you’re photographing someone?
A: It’s about truly understanding the subjects in front of me. If it’s a couple, I tune into their dynamic. If it’s a horse, I sync with its state. I empathize with how much space they need—whether they want guidance, reassurance, or quiet attention. When that collaboration flows well, that’s when the magic happens.
Q: How do you pick up on that connection quickly?
A: First impressions and the energy they bring matter a lot. I notice if they’re excited or reluctant to be in front of the camera. I adapt my own energy to match theirs—sometimes I lead if I really need a shot, sometimes I just let it be. I also make sure the background and light are ready, so I know exactly where to place them. I prefer natural poses but have a few go-to templates when needed.
Q: How do you set the tone at the beginning?
A: I meet people with curiosity and enthusiasm—like a happy puppy, but not over the top. At the same time, I’m calm, grounded, and well prepared. That helps them trust they’re in good hands.
Q: What if someone is tense?
A: I chat with them more until they relax. If possible, we take a short walk—movement helps release tension. I also guide them through breathing exercises or closing their eyes briefly. Sometimes repeating a simple movement helps them find their best expression.
Q: What if the connection just doesn’t come?
A: Sometimes subjects are closed off—often because they’re insecure and hide it behind anger or defensiveness. I handle that with patience and empathy but also keep an eye on timing. When I have the shots I need, I wrap it up.
Q: What feedback touches you most?
A: When people say they felt comfortable and that I captured them as they really are—even if they feel awkward or shy. It means I got their energy, connection, and emotions on camera.
Practical tips for building quick connection in portrait sessions
Read the energy.
Notice if someone is open or guarded, and adjust your vibe accordingly. Calm when needed, upbeat when welcome.
Have go-to poses ready.
Prepare a few poses or angles that work every time, but stay flexible. Natural moments often make the best photos.
Know your setup.
Be sure of your lighting, background, and where to place your subject. This leaves more room for connection.
Use movement and breathing.
Suggest a short walk, breathing exercises, or repeating simple gestures to help relax the body.
Trust your intuition.
Sometimes you sense immediately what’s needed: space, guidance, or silence. The more grounded you are, the better you pick up on these signals.
Closing thoughts
Sometimes it takes just seconds, but the feeling will linger: we truly saw each other.
Whether you’re behind or in front of the camera, connection happens in the meeting itself. Julie’s approach is about tuning in, staying curious, and gently guiding. Because yes, the lens captures technical skill—but the image lives through who you are.
